Friday, November 20, 2009

Sweating During Sex, Good or Bad??

My husband is 29yrs old/ and we have been together for 6yrs and married 3yrs on Aug.1,2007 (yes same day)





But when my husband %26amp; I have sex, He tends to sweat alot and its turing me off and not wanting it from him as much as I used to





He says its normal but I disagree, cause he didnt sweat when we meet 6yrs ago this just started happing like this this year and I'm thinking something else might be wrong cause sometimes he will lose his erection durin sex





So I wanted all your opions - Is Sweating during Sex, A Good thing or bad thing??

Sweating During Sex, Good or Bad??
it's not a good or bad thing it just happens my fiance sweats a lot but I love it shows me he's working hard to please me. plus I think the sweat is sexy. if you don't like it try a position where he doesn't have to do as much that way your one sweating.
Reply:it means your working out, its a good thing
Reply:Not to be sound harsh, but could it be that he's doing all the work?
Reply:he might just be drinking too much water. is it really rough sex. i need to paint a better mental picture ;)
Reply:Tell him to start working out and he will get in better shape and sweat less.
Reply:Haha well.. Well if it bothers you, u could try turning on your aircon. It should help a little. Orrrrr you could take control and do most of the 'work'.





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Reply:Sweating and losing his erection... he's out of shape. Hit the gym and then he can hit the.... ya know.... anyhow, his blood flow is worse and hes in worse shape now that he's getting older. Everyone is turning to Viagra but most of them just need to bust out a few more sit ups ect.
Reply:Has he gained weight in the last few years? Sex is a physical act and you do burn calories while doing it. Some call it a sport. Others call it an exercise. As far as the loss of erection during sex, that will happen as men get older. If you don't believe me just tune in to Talk Sex With Sue on the Oxygen Channel Sunday evenings at 11pm est or go to the website. It has the same name as the show.
Reply:Did he gain waight over the past 6 years? Is so that would answer both of your questions. He's getting a work out during sex, with the thrusting and what-not, and if his out of shape that would explane why he sweats alot.





Also if he's out of shape that would also explane why he can't keep a hard-on.





If he's the same waight as when you guys started dating then I don't know...
Reply:In a Rolling Stone interview Gwen Stefani did after a show with No Doubt in Dubai, the writer asked her why she got so sweaty, or something to that extent. To paraphrase her response: "It doesn't smell, see" and she raised a drenched top she'd just changed out of, lifting it to the writer's face. He admitted it did not smell at all.





I would have no problem if Gwen Stefani sweat all over me, in any circumstance. Now, lately I smell like taco seasonings when I sweat, so it's not a universally good thing as you can imagine. Perhaps Ms. Stefani loves the smell of tacos during, but I'd have to imagine she, and most people, would not. I personally don't dig most pungent odors, but most girls don't really smell bad after a work out, just human, and within the context of sex that's a good thing I'd say.





Really sweating is very healthy for the most part. I am sure its a symptom of some condition, but I think most heavy sweaters are healthy. There's a slew of things that can cause a guy yo lose wood, but if I was your man I imagine I'd pick up on how grossed out you were getting, and I might then lose wood (it's an awful feeling to gross out a lover).





HERE"S A TIP:





Have your man take a shower before the act. He will still sweat, but the whole thing won't be as smelly (it is bacteria on the body that stinks the most and he can wash a good deal of it off).





HERE"S ANOTHER TIP:





Do him while you're on top. He'll work less, sweat less, and what sweat there is will not drip on you.





HERE"S ANOTHER TIP:





Antiperspirant, not just on the pits.





ANOTHER:





AC, and not under the covers, and witha fan beating on you. And be gentle about the whole "you sweat too much deal."





To answer your question more succinctly, sweating during the act is cool if it isn't super stinky, and if it isn't a river of sweat (though again, Gwen can practically drown me, I'll be fine).





Sigh.


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